By Amaury Abreu
There are many people who are currently in love relationships with people who they themselves know are not the person they want to spend the rest of their lives with. If you are that person, you must understand the following: Your problem is not that you don’t know how to get a new boyfriend or girlfriend, your problem is that you are not looking for THE right KIND of person. If you are in a relationship with a person who wants to waste time, get into vices, be unfaithful, use drugs or other bad habits, YOU CANNOT THINK THAT YOU ARE GOING TO MAKE THAT PERSON CHANGE.
Leave that concept of superhero or superheroine that you have about yourself because the reality is that you are not going to change another person. Many times we waste more time falling in love with people who are a bad influence on us instead of focusing on creating a relationship with people who ARE HEALTHY!
Do not waste your time! Don’t waste time with people who don’t want the best for you. I recently listened to a video of a man who said that as a married man he can sleep with other women because that doesn’t mean he doesn’t love his wife… .. very few times have I heard such absurd ideas. That woman who is married to that man is not happy as much as that man is not happy even if he says otherwise. A man or woman who cannot physically be faithful to his partner IS NOT the person you should marry.
Be very careful with the people with whom you have an intimate relationship, especially if you are thinking of getting married. The world is full of good people with whom you can create a loving and faithful relationship and be happy.
Do not get carried away by your physical impulses, you are more than a physical being, you are a spiritual being having a physical experience.
Author: Amaury Abreu
